Teaching has become a difficult profession and is now classed as the hardest Profession in the World. To be a good teacher today you need to be tough, thick skinned, over-tolerant and deaf.
Teaching was a noble and honored profession. The first 20 year of teaching was total excitement and total joy. Teachers in the sixties and the seventies were respected and loved, and whether autocratic or democratic, had control over students and were able to dictate to the students. If students went against the teacher or the school rules, there was the firm Principal, a ruling God, to help, wielding a strap and detention, and even worse, a call to the Parent, which was the final resort and which usually worked, as teachers and schools had full parental support, as Parents also respected Schools and Teachers.
The parent would either hit, take away treats such as watching television or stop private lessons in ballet or kung fu, or worse, stop the valued pocket money or free time, and somehow help bring the child back to submission. It was a system that worked. I know as I was a child, a student, a teacher, and a Principal in that era.
Then came the eighties, and along came Joan Kirner. I was Vice Principal at Richmond, and looking forward to being the Principal. Joan Kirner was the President of the Parents Association, and suddenly she was in the News, and Parents were demanding to be part of the Schools, and be involved in the Curriculum and Courses. I took one look at her and what she was representing, and decided my teaching days were done, if I had to follow demands of people who were not Professional and who did not know as much as me about teaching. Rather than conform to being dictated to by someone I considered ignorant and rude and also stupid, I took my usual line of resistance, and resigned.
I started a Florist Shop which I ran for 10 years. That was the eighties, a time of parents telling teachers what to do.
Education went on with Madam Kirner becoming the next Minister of Education, and then to my huge surprise, the Premier. It sort of confirmed my opinion of New Politics in Education, as she replaced a much valued and respected Dr Laurie Shears. She was a totally different person, and suddenly Education was being dictated to by parents and ordinary people, not trained academics. I happily went on with my Flowers, and after trying to teach casually to eke out my income, I returned to my shop deciding teaching had lost its golden glow and students were becoming rude and uncontrollable. I put it down to the fact that I was a casual teacher, but now punishment had been withdrawn, the strap was delegated to Education Museums, and teachers were using Psychology, which did not hurt the students at all, and confused the parents, and a form of laissez faire was coming in to being, and students were becoming more problematic.
I now had a teenager in the same situation. Where once I controlled her, she now did her own thing, and in desperation I sent her to her father who had a new wife who was also a teacher. Then I was counseling them on how to manage my own child. We would sit at the dining table and they would relegate all her evils, such as going out at night, breaking into the locked house during the day, wagging school, and her exploits with boys. It was not an easy time for being a teenager growing into a young adult, or a parent trying to control a child, that now the schools were not able to discipline, because of the new rules and regulations. I was pleased to be a Florist and out of it all and I counseled until she decided to leave her father and return to me, which she did.
The nineties were even worse. Now the young students who were starting school were the children of the generation we had taught in the sixties, and they grew up in the discordant eighties with all this talk of freedom and doing what one chose to do without discipline, and they were bringing up their children in the same way. The children of those who found freedom were without boundaries, and schools were not able to control them, as they were not accustomed to rules and control. Both parents were now working and they either did not have the time to manage their children, or could not manage their children, as they themselves did not have rules to pass on. This was the era of free sex, smoking, drinking and shop-lifting, stealing and making a mockery of Law and Order. Parents had lost control which they did not know how to have, and even young students starting schools behaved as they chose, and teachers struggled to run their classrooms.
It was also the start of school counselors and school psychologists and groups with strategies for coping with ‘learning disorders’ which was the new name for bad behavior.
It was in the middle of this that I returned to training as a Visual Arts teacher, and returned to teaching to find it had all changed. Now students yelled at teachers, and if you yelled back, the teacher got reprimanded, and students were permitted to throw furniture around, and be pardoned, while the teacher cleaned up the mess after the student was sent to the counselor for serious discussion. I spent the next five years in New Zealand, and the same thing was happening there, and at the end of each year I moved to a new school, and found parents were now in control, and the schools worked well if they had a good Parent Group, but if they didn’t, then there were issues. Teachers now had to placate a Parent body who was controlling the funding and the school, to a great degree, and were also dictating terms if they had a President who liked his volunteer status as Boss of the School.
Teaching was now difficult, but still manageable, as teachers worked out ways of placating students so the classes would work as co-operatives. If however a problem parent with a difficult to manage child clashed with a teacher, the teacher usually lost. The classic example here is the School Truant Officer and her son in ‘Captain January’. There were parents like her who demanded the special treatment for their child, and if they didn’t get it, made trouble and the Principal was more afraid of the parent than the teacher, who was replaceable anyway.
Then came the new Millennium, and now schools are in a total mess. I tried teaching in two states, and in both clashed with a student who was scary enough to control the students, the parents and the teachers at the school. When I reprimanded a female student for exposing her breasts, a male teacher told me if he did that, she would claim sexual harassment. Students were openly having intimate relationships in the schoolyard, and a handsome male teacher told me that female students would sit in his class opening their legs and exposing themselves to him, and there was nothing he could do but ignore the situation, as even making a comment opened him to harassment.
The new word of the millennium was ‘sexual harassment’ and it was thrown at everyone. I asked a twelve year student to drop in for a drink when he said he lived a few doors down the road from me, and the class sniggered, and one student sneered, ‘she fancies you mate…watch it’.
That was to be my last invitation to a student for out of school sharing. I remember the days of taking students to my holiday house, and inviting them to my house for a meal. I asked the principal about inviting my Year threes to my home for a Curry dinner…part of a Social Studies Unit, and her reply was, ‘We don’t do that sort of thing now you know, its too dangerous”. Teaching had become a profession that was suddenly open to libel and innocent gestures were carefully avoided. The teaching profession was not trained to handle this area and could not handle it, thus the build up of cases and the inability of anyone to do anything about it. Minors cannot be criminals, but the Media were training minors to be criminals better than it was training adults to handle misdemeanors.
The worst incidents are where students who constantly use bad language and sexual talk abuse teachers openly in the class. Recently I applied for a job and the Principal kept stressing that the students are ‘violent, use very bad language, and throw furniture around the class and school’. Her concern was whether I could tolerate that, not whether it would continue to happen if I was appointed. This behavior is considered as usual and normal and acceptable in that school. This is frightening. It is happening and schools are permitting it to happen. There is no discipline anymore and no standards, and also no respect for the School and Education. One reason that the Private Schools and Religious Schools are attracting more students, they still have standards because they have Rules and Regulations, and thus better Education.
Students were now using sex and violence as their control tools and this is powerful, as they are able to control teachers, by openly asking for favors, and getting very powerful when rejected, and losing face, and creating negative ways of showing their displeasure with open violence. Not only do they practice violence, they are able to use their mobile phone cameras to video their violence and control, and broadcast this to the world thus shaming the very system that is not trying to control them, because it simply can’t. Schools have lost authority and control because they are now being led by the generation that themselves did not have authority and control, and you cannot be free until you learn boundaries. Today there appear to be no boundaries. One can do anything.
The News is rife with sex scandals in schools, (see digge and Youtube) and this is the new millennium we so proudly hailed, and as soon to be retiring teacher, I am pleased that I can dictate some of where I teach, and I have gone to teach in Asia where some order still prevails, because there is still parental control over their children, and a lot of love. The answer is Love. Bring back Love and the responsibilities that go hand in hand with Love. One does not hurt or destroy that which one loves, and Love is needed in the schools….with the teachers for their students, and starting with the parents for their children. Indulgence has replaced Love, and letting a child as young at two get away with being rude and demanding, is not tolerance, it is creating another monster for the schools to handle.
Maybe the answer also lies in Religion. The day we took away the allegiance to the Country and the Flag, and took God away from the Schools was the day that students without home rules and home respect, also lost the rules they had for their country and their Life. They don’t have Rules, and Human beings need rules to know when they are not living right. It was the role of parents and Schools to make these rules and help enforce them. We are trying to enforce what is not there, and the young are confused. Do they follow what their peers or what the Internet says, or do they work out what is the right way to live for them and make their own choice? It is a time of choices and children of all ages have always had to choose how to live their lives. Today, they are overwhelmed with what is happening and the bad are encouraged to stay bad, as there is no option or reason to change. It’s a huge decision for a young person to have to make on their own, and those that have parents to guide them are in a better position to make the right decision. There are however, many more without that parent, and they have taken the louder voice and control.
This is the Fight of the New Generation…to identify how to live and to rediscover what is acceptable and what is misguided behavior. Time for the parents to take back responsibility for bringing up their children, and for Schools to return to what they should be doing…teaching the students.
In the meantime, older generation teachers like me, are pleased to be reaching retirement. I am pleased to say that I am soon retiring, and hope to be writing about teaching in the near future, and how to teach.
My days are done. The schools want teachers who can “handle bad language, rude students, and permit furniture to be thrown around” to quote a Principal of such a school.
I know I cannot do this. I will continue to try and teach students in a peaceful environment which values the rights of students to learn, without them being subjected to unwanted behaviors of students in the class, and there is no way I can tolerate bad behavior in my class just because a student is capable of bad behavior, and permitted bad behavior. A new Teacher Training focus is required if this is going to be a pre-requisite for employment, and maybe also a Martial Arts training with the proviso, that teachers are able to physically attack students who physically attack other students. There was the incident of a teacher going to break up a fight between students in the playground, being sued by the parents for manhandling the student. The teacher lost his job. Today in playground fights, which are publicized proudly on YouTube, teachers cannot intervene for fear of reprimand. I watched a fight where the teachers, me too, stood helplessly watching a student being kicked into a rubbish bin, and a student went to help, and he got attacked too. The student kicking turned and punched the innocent student, who was blamed for being in the brawl too, which he merely tried to stop, because the teachers were standing helplessly watching, knowing they could not touch the students. We had to wait for the teacher given this responsibility to appear and take control, which he eventually did.
This is teaching today…violence and sex. It’s a dangerous Game and very bad for the morale. I think I would rather be a lion tamer; they don’t get attacked by lions of the opposite sex or verbally abused. I would class teaching as one of the hardest professions today and I admire the dedicated teachers who teach, despite all the difficulties they have to now manage. Teaching is a calling…and yes, we answer a call, and we teach because we love teaching.
Marguerite Carstairs ©
18 June 2008
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